Monday, January 23, 2012

Mellow Music, Caves, and Cake

Fridays are like a sigh of relief, I woke up and cleaned, tromped down the hill for fried rice supplies, sweated back up the hill and took a long shower. Sometime around ten Borja came home with a few friends, we’d met at our last party, we all crammed into the kitchen and they taught me silly phrases and peeled potatoes while I boiled rice and chopped garlic. I was chopping carrots when more friends came, we exchanged polite kisses and I started defrosted the peas. When Sydney and Michelle arrived with lentils I was just finishing up the fried rice, and Borja and Marc were frying potatoes. We made vodka and pineapple juice drinks and sat in the living room and they passed around the guitar and the girls sang, at first quiet, but sweet and soulful, and the boys sang jubilant songs in Spanish, and we all clapped along and complained about being hungry and smoked spliffs.  When Borja finished the tortilla espaƱola we all cheered and dug in, piling our plates with tender tortilla, with flavorful lentils dabbed with plain yogurt, with rice slathered in Sriracha. We refilled our drinks, the boys passed around a bottle of wine, and Michelle rubbed my belly. We smoked more. The music started back up, stronger voices, boozy brave, I couldn’t stop smiling, even the little fragments of uncertain song were perfect. By three in the morning we’d switched to recorded music, played Al Green and watched videos of an a cappella choir singing a Prodigy song, and Syd, Michelle and I went to the kitchen to make cookies. They must have thought we were crazy, in fact they told us so, found us closed in the kitchen dancing to California Dreaming while nibbling on cookie dough. When the cookies were done Borja’s friends took over the kitchen, boiling marijuana and butter, to use for a cake the next day. Then we curled up on the couches, finished off the vodka and melted into the cushions.

The next day we all woke up far too early, got the cake in the oven and sipped on tea. Everyone went home to collect things and I puttered around the house and realized I’d somehow lost my phone. Mierda. A good half an hour or so late, Borja and I eventually made our way down to Plaza Nueva to meet up with more people and some pretty adorable puppies. We weren’t the latest, though, so we sat in the plaza and sipped on litros until everyone else gathered, and then we wandered our way in fluctuating clumps up past the Alhambra, past the cemetery and over into a part of town I’d never seen before, with it’s own cave community. We climbed a narrow little path up to a cave with the bare bones of mattress spring frame for a door, and sat around a little table on couch cushions and opened up the weed cake and dug in.

One of the cave’s residents gave me a tour; the cave was dark and musky and he kept telling me that it was normally cleaner, but it had a hard cement floor, lumpy rounded while walls, and shadowy little chambers where beds were set up. It had a communal space with a couch, which is also where one of the more roving members of the household slept, and a little kitchen area, where they place goals under a grate to cook stovetop and have a little brick oven. No lights, no running water, just pure scavenging self sufficiency, a good deal of neighborly good will, and a lot of dumpster diving (although I have to say, I like that in Spanish they refer to it as reciclando, or recycling.)

Back outside, everyone was figuring out money stuff, and someone went on a drug run and came back with mushrooms and acid, which was promptly divided up and eaten. The sun was getting low, and a chill set in, so someone suggested we all go get some firewood, and we tromped back down the hill, to a wooded area where the boys sawed big pieces of fallen trees and the girls gathered piles of sticks for kindling. When we got back it was just about sunset, so we dropped the wood in piles and went around the other side of the hill to watch the sun slink away beneath the city silhouette. The drugs were started to kick in and everyone was smiling until they thought their faces would fall off. I can’t laugh anymore, I just can’t, they kept saying, laughing. When we got back to the cave, they’d already started a fire.

I spent the night with a soft, mellow buzz, taking little drags off spliffs that came my way, sipping on the bottles of wine and beer. I didn’t expect to be there so long, but night fell and we huddled around the fire, ducked from the smoke and chatted. A little puppy would climb over us, let me pull her into my lap and sit like a person and doze off for a little, and then would go and bark at the bigger dogs. At some point someone pulled out a bunch of chicken and spiced and grilled it and passed it around with bread, later someone handed around pears and tangerines and we all nibbled on them. One of the girls, Eva, tried my Burts Bees chapstick and took to calling it el chicle que no es chicle, the gum that isn’t gum, made everyone try it and kept asking for more every half an hour or so. Everyone was nice in an easy natural way, no one stopped conversations abruptly to ask me if I understood, and it’s better that way. I didn’t talk much, but I never do in situations where I know so few people, but it was fine, I let the language wash over me like smoke, took in what I could and chatted to the people nearest to me. It’s funny how uncomfortable you can make someone by trying too hard to make them comfortable, but no one did that to me. Midnight came and went and it wasn’t until sometime after one thirty that we began stirring, some people headed for the bars, others for home. Borja and I walked home with one of the girls, whose name escapes me (too many new names in one night…) since we realized we were nearly neighbors. On the walk home it suddenly occurred to me how little I’d slept and how little I’d eaten—about three hours of sleep the night before and I was running on weed cake and pieces of shared fruit and bread—but the hungry exhaustion that settled in my bones was satisfying. I love Granada.

Sunday, January 15, 2012

Shit in the Streets

Casey is gone. I was really sad to have him leave, and even contemplated what sorts of serious injuries would render him incapable of leaving, but on Thursday we went and had churros and chocolate with Leah and then I took him to the bus station and he headed off to Madrid. I cried a little but made myself go to class so I couldn't sulk and be bummed out all day. Now that he's back home with the MooMoo dog, things feel pretty normal. I miss him, but a normal amount, so, it's okay. We crammed a lot of last minute fun into those last days; we had a night picnic up by San Miguel alto, and had pasta and salad while watching the Alhambra glow and all the little lights flicker all throughout the city, and the stars were clear and it was pretty. We went out to tapas with Courtney and Mauna, had mediocre Chinese food (which strangely included a watery flan for dessert), went discount shopping (I finally got some much needed sweatshirts!), got coffee and pastries, and Casey got to skate a bit more, plus we watched movies (all of the Narnia movies!) and made good food and did other cozy things that make us feel normal.

Like I wrote last time, the semester is coming to a close and things are getting pretty stressful, but I was talking to my friend Sydney the other day and it was a really simple, casual conversation, but we were talking about how little grades and academic success really matter in the long run and it made me feel a lot better. Obviously school is important to me, but that's always been because I enjoy learning, primarily, and even though my grades may matter if I try and do grad school, it's not worth panicking over. So basically, I'm doing my best but remembering to breathe. I've never failed a class before, but if I do, fuck it, I'm not here to get good grades in classes where I'm learning nothing, anyway.

I have been pretty studious this weekend, finished up a big unit planning project in my methodology class, for one, but have also been having a lot of fun. Friday I met up with Christina and we went and picked out a birthday present for Karim. He's into comics and graphic novels, so we thought about getting him a gift card since we had no idea what to get, but they didn't have any, so we made the shop keepers help us pick something out based on the few books that we recognized from his collection, and our personal preferences (some of their suggestions were kinda ugly.) We also made him a card, and then later made dinner and met up with some friends at Laurel's house. We didn't do much that night, but we eventually got pretty extremely drunk and mostly just goofed around at Christina's until she got sleepy. Then Syd, Michelle and I went to the Mirador San Nicolas until we froze a little, and they walked me home and tucked me into bed. Literally. How cute is that?

Saturday, Christina and I bused to Jun with a bunch of Karim's other friends and we had a barbeque at his dad's house. His dad was really sweet and had a bad ass cane. It was great seeing him and Danielle, who just got engaged in Dubai, and of course my big slobbery dog pal, Leto! We had grilled veggies and salad, humus and pita bread, and they made sausages and burgers, too. I was miraculously energetic despite only sleeping about four hours the night before, and that night met up with Hannah and this Spanish guy, Carlos, whose in my North American Lit class, to have a few beers on Pedro Antonio. On our way, we ran into one of his friends, who was on his way to meet up with more friends, so we went to a little bar called Pub Venom and had a pretty awesome, mellow night drinking beers and hanging out with some really chill Spaniards. It was fun 'cause a few of them are studying or at least practicing their English, so everyone benefited linguistically. They were a really cool group of kids and I felt we had a lot in common and we were able to have some pretty worthwhile conversations. We talked about American consumerism, car culture, vegetarianism, veganism, the value of life, abortion, overpopulation, social anxiety, language...

However, last night I also witnessed literally the worst thing I've ever seen when we walked by a homeless guy sitting in a corner with his pants down, pissing and shitting on the sidewalk. Yeah, I saw dick, balls, piss and shit all at the same time. So. There's that. I tried to write a more well rounded title for this but, I just couldn't. Too traumatized. I want everyone to suffer with me. PICTURE IT.

Anyway, despite the night's disgusting end, I had a lot of fun, and ended up sleeping for about a million years by the time I got home (around 5:30 or 6:00am). Today it is raining, which is kind of a bummer because I still have clothes on the line, but was also good because I stayed home and worked on my methodology project and on transcribing a conversation for my pragmatics project, which I'm honestly not sure when is due... Shit. I also got to Skype with Michael Baba, and we had an online tea party and I got to hear about the silly shenanigans I've been missing out on, and it was grand.

By the way, the lack of photos is mostly due to the fact that I dropped my iPhone in Gypsy's water bowl the other day, so it's sitting in a bag of rice in an attempt to not ruin it. Or what's left of it...it's kind of already a total cracked, scratched, fucked up disgrace.

Oh, and I don't think I've yet mentioned that my mom is coming in slightly less than three weeks and I'm SUPER FUCKING PUMPED. We are going to have all the fun. All of it.

Sunday, January 8, 2012

Casey, Cordoba and Curry

It's pretty daunting to try and come back and write after what seems like an eternity.

Casey is still here, but since I start school again tomorrow I decided to sit down and try and work on some homework and let him go skate for a bit. The homework thing is slow going, due to being absolutely non-academic for however long and forgetting what exactly my assignments were, and also due to the procrastination bug that I've contracted since I've gotten here. I should probably get my ass in gear, though, because I have less than a month until the semester is over and finals begin, and I have a few nagging projects that I should be taking care of like...now.

Having Casey here has been amazing and amazing and amazing. We've had a ton of fun and I've tried to be good about taking him to see things that are good to see. We've done a good deal of city wandering, trotted up to San Miguel Alto for the view of a lifetime (a few times), walked down the hill and meandered between the caves, and hiked up to the Alhambra and had a picnic lunch up in the gardens with a tubby black cat that enjoyed our potato chips.




He made me a Thanksgiving dinner, brought Torfurkey for me and everything and we cooked up stuffing and mashed potatoes and it was heavenly and lasted us three meals. He also brought chocolate chips and syrup and we made potatoes and have had a million tasty Casey-breakfasts with different varieties of his delicious potatoes and scrambles and omelets and fried eggs and toast with the honey peach jam my Karen sent me from Twin Palms Ranch and made tasty veggie burgers and homemade french fries and had Casey's tasty curry at a little dinner with some California friends.




We went to the sweet little cafe I fell in love with when I first came here, Bohemia, and stopped by El Piano for some of their tasty little boats of vegetarian, gluten free deliciousness; we went to the science museum and gawked at the T-Rex exhibit and the MC Escher exhibit and the human body exhibit and went up on the tower and looked at the mountains with binoculars. We had beer and tapas with Sydney, went to el Tango and la Marisma, and another veggie place I'd never been to and we went to FrescCo, which is exactly like Fresh Choice, except it's Spain so they don't have salad dressing.




We woke up painfully early one morning and took a bus to Cordoba, had greasy churros at the bus station, walked through the pretty green park and picked oranges and befriended ducks and found a stretch of pretty old fountains, wandered to the Mezquita with it's weird juxtaposition of intricate Muslim decorum and gaudy Catholic gold and statues, ate sandwiches and stumbled upon a calligraphy exhibition in a place called la Casa Arabe, where we found an unlocked conference room and pretended to lecture into the little microphones and then got kicked out, found the big Plaza de las Tendillas and searched in vain for a skate park, had patatas bravas and pizza for lunch and drank a pitcher of sweet rummy sangria, walked some more and had a coffee, and went back to the park where two kids on bicycles came swerving at us out of nowhere and one kid hit the curb and fell off his bike, and then smacked Casey in the face, claiming he'd been thrown off of it, and we just walked away because he was so tiny and it was so ridiculous, and then took the evening bus home.




We took Gypsy to the vet (thrills!) and Casey has been winning over the  kitties with his belly scratches, and they've both been sleeping on our faces and being ridiculous. We woke up early another morning and took the bus to the Sierra Nevada, since Case has never been to the snow, but we discovered that the snow was mostly blocked off for skiers or other paying customers, so we just wandered around and rode this silly little sled ride and broke the ice on a frozen over pond and pet a pony and had pasta lunch and befriended a sweet boxer dog and drank hot chocolate. We went to el Camborio and wooed each other with our equally horrible dancing, and slept in almost everyday, which is a real feat for Casey.




We celebrated our third year anniversary by getting fancied up and trying to go to a vegetarian restaurant called Paprika, which turned out to be closed for "technical reasons," and then walked down Calle Elvira until we stumbled upon an absolutely delicious Indian restaurant where I had the best food I've had since I've been here (maybe excluding our breakfasts): potato cauliflower curry and creamy spinach with paneer, rice and cheesy nan followed by a strange mango ice cream that was kind of...grainy. Then we rolled ourselves up the hill and watched two mediocre romantic comedies.




Now it's Sunday, and school starts back up tomorrow and Casey leaves in four days, which is kind of bleak. Having him here is worrisome in that it makes me preemptively miss him more than ever, but on the bright side my mom has finally gotten her tickets to come see me in February; exactly one month and one day away. I'm excited because she'll be here for two full weeks, and even though I really miss my step dad and brother, I know we'll have a ton of fun hanging out just the two of us. So, as per usual, life is good.